I am honoured to have been invited to join Ali's team. Why? Because he is a true inspiration. I believe, that attitudes are contagious. IS YOURS WORTH CATCHING? Together, we will generate a sassy, powerful, positive attitude that will become infectious. In as little as 21 days, I will turn your life around. It takes 21 days to make or break a habbit and it's about time that you gave yourself the treatment that you deserve - it's time to drop any excess baggage (yes, just like that! try it and see!) and just 'be'. My plan does not involve hours worth of tedious therapy, or soul searching. It simply magics you out of your rut, and introduces you to the one person who can inspire you more than anyone else in the whole world .... YOU! Unleash your Inner Goddess, go from Victim to Vixen, and in as little as 21 days, you'll emerge as the fabulous woman that you HAVE ALWAYS BEEN! You just need to let her out. It's fun, it's effortless and once you read some of my secret tips and techniques, you'll never look back. You most certainly won't want to stifle your Inner Goddess again!Once you have befriended your IG, you will find that relationships of all kinds, respond to this and also transform in ways that you would previously have thought impossible. I offer coaching and advice on all areas of love, from the perfect first date, to long and lasting love, breakups, how to get your ex back, and alternative love for those who do not fit into the box! My main aim, is to encourage women to feel empowered and comfortable in their own skin, in and out of relationship.We come into this world alone and the most important relationship that you will ever have, is the one with YOURSELF.
Your Inner Goddess, is yourself. Your soul. Your intuition. Your heart. The real, true essence of YOU. Simple! And the trick to unleashing her, is to simply learn how to quieten the hussle and bussle that confuses her, dig her out from underneath all of life's baggage that has accumulated and let her JUST BE! That's it! You do not need to invent your Goddess. The Goddess, is not an unrealistic, society defined role model that you should be living up to. Your Goddess is simply YOU, regardless of your looks, weight, race, sexuality or age. The world would be a pretty boring place if we were all the same wouldn't it. Infact, the beauty of 'Unleashing your Inner Goddess' is that the less you do, the better. I simply teach you how to build your confidence to Unleash her, through a series of tools and techniques, and within as little as 21 days, she will be there for all to see. She has always been there. You just sometimes lose her along the way. When fear or loss or doubt creeps in, when you lose your self confidence, the Goddess is stifled and repressed. We will look at how you can snap yourself out of such cycles, and build a better relationship with her, living totally in the moment, from day to day, and never looking back with anything but acceptance. Because you may be someone who really is struggling with low self esteem and a lack of self confidence, let's start by depersonalising your Inner Goddess. Sounds bizarre right? She is after all, YOU. But when you have lost touch with who you truly are, it can seem like a mission trying to relate to the concept of the IG. So to start with, I like to get clients thinking of their IG as a 'friend'. I want you to kick back and relax now, and visualise your friend in your mind's eye. What does she look like? I like to imagine a Betty Boop style cartoon character, who is sassy, cheeky and does not let lifes' knock backs hold her down. Name your friend. Mine is called Jane. But let's just say for now, that yours is called 'Betty'.Now imagine that Betty has been trying to communicate with you every day for god knows how long, but you have been unresponsive. She has tried all manner of things to get your attention, but you do not listen. As a result, Betty has become 'sick' and has lost her sparkle. She is alone, forgotten and begins to fester. This makes you feel stressed, run down and tired. But you keep on going, getting on with your day to day life, worrying about everyone else, everyone except Betty.
Now - if this were a real life friend of yours that I was describing, would you behave this way towards her? Of course not! Infact, a lot of us spend more time focusing on the needs and wants of our friends, often to the detriment of ourselves. If our friend was being treated in such a way by someone else, for example, her boyfriend/husband, what would we feel/say? Most likely we would feel anger and sadness and tell Betty that she deserves better, and that this ignorance of her existence, is a form of mental abuse.
So why then, do so many of us treat ourselves, our IG, in the very same way, on almost a daily basis?
This technique, now that you have carried out and visualised your internal friend, how did it make you feel? I found that I became fonder of my character, and wanted to appologise to her for treating her worse than I would anybody else. Make friends with your IG and realise, that your best friend is actually with you at all times. She is YOU! Once you acknowledge her existence and need for friendship, then you will find that a shift happens internally, and you feel more aware of your inner self and your right to self acceptance.
Once you have connected to your IG you can then begin to follow the tools and techniques that I will share with you, that will help you revive, revamp and release and unleash your IG! There is the old cliche that 'until you learn to love yourself, how can you expect others to love YOU ?' Cliches are cliches because they are true. Sure, you may find a partner, and he or she may love you. But unless you are being your true self, then they are actually in love with a version of you that is not a true representation of who you truly are. Because you have your IG repressed deep inside, you may find that you feel frustrated, unhappy and dis-satisfied in your relationships, and often blame the other person for your unhappiness. But until you come into alignment with who you really are, you won't find a match that best suits you, as the whole thing will be based on rocky foundations.
By connecting with your IG, you will find that not only does your relationship with yourself transform, you will also relate better to others, in all relationships in your life, especially in LOVE. The Law of Attractions teaches us, that 'what you focus on, and what you feel, you attract more of that back to you'. So the longer that you are repressing your IG, or true self, the more you will keep on attracting the wrong kinds of guy to you. A great book to look at is 'The Vortex' by Esther and Jerry Hicks. But don't worry, I'll discuss more about how the Law of Attraction can work with your IG in a seperate article.
Right, time for tea, my IG needs caffeine!
Angela Butler