I am honoured to have been invited to join Ali's team. Why? Because he is a true inspiration. I believe, that attitudes are contagious. IS YOURS WORTH CATCHING? Together, we will generate a sassy, powerful, positive attitude that will become infectious. In as little as 21 days, I will turn your life around. It takes 21 days to make or break a habbit and it's about time that you gave yourself the treatment that you deserve - it's time to drop any excess baggage (yes, just like that! try it and see!) and just 'be'. My plan does not involve hours worth of tedious therapy, or soul searching. It simply magics you out of your rut, and introduces you to the one person who can inspire you more than anyone else in the whole world .... YOU! Unleash your Inner Goddess, go from Victim to Vixen, and in as little as 21 days, you'll emerge as the fabulous woman that you HAVE ALWAYS BEEN! You just need to let her out. It's fun, it's effortless and once you read some of my secret tips and techniques, you'll never look back. You most certainly won't want to stifle your Inner Goddess again!Once you have befriended your IG, you will find that relationships of all kinds, respond to this and also transform in ways that you would previously have thought impossible. I offer coaching and advice on all areas of love, from the perfect first date, to long and lasting love, breakups, how to get your ex back, and alternative love for those who do not fit into the box! My main aim, is to encourage women to feel empowered and comfortable in their own skin, in and out of relationship.We come into this world alone and the most important relationship that you will ever have, is the one with YOURSELF.
The Little Guide to the Inner Goddess at large!In my article 'Meet your Inner Goddess', I look at how we all have within us, an Inner Goddess, and when we acknowledge her presence and live each day with her as our best ali, life changes in an instant. The kick ass Vixen knows that it simply does not matter what life throws at her, because her IG will rise to the challenge. Her mantra is 'you cannot alter the direction of the wind, but you can always adjust your sails', and so even the fear of 'bad times ahead' loses its power, because the IG rides on the wave of life, and embraces the storms along the way, seeing them as opportunities for personal growth and change. Without change, and without self development, we may aswell wither up and die.
So! This little guide, looks at the Goddess at Large - and explains how the IG would respond to some of life and loves challenges.
THE INNER GODDESS IN LOVE
The IG in love is a great catch for any man. Gone are the days of trying too hard to please him. Bye Bye needy chick and hello Goddess! She does not worry about what if this or what if that because she knows, that as long as she is 100% true to herself, (her IG) then she will always be exactly where she needs to be. This is because, when we are truly ourselves and live life with an open heart, soul and mind, then we move naturally into alignment with the Universal energy and things, places, people most suited to us are drawn our way. So - as soon as the IG is unleashed, the right man will come along (if he is not already there) and things will seem effortless.
THE INNER GODDESS AND THE BREAKUP!
During a breakup, the IG deals with things with dignity. She is not too proud to access her feelings. But she also does not try and force someone to love her. She knows, that if she uses the 'feel and heal' technique (a secret tool from my upcoming book!) then she can safely express her inner feelings and fears to herself, but she does not need to keep texting, mailing or msn'ing her man. Through keeping a journal, or emailing herself (as if she were writing to him) she can break through her immediate emotions, and give herself at least 21 days in which to think and recouperate, before working out what to do next. The IG always ACTS and doesn't REACT.
Note: during the actual breakup, the best thing that an IG can do, is to agree with it! Chasing someone who is running away from you simply pushes them that extra mile and you find yourself in dumpsville, population of one! If you live together and he announces that he is leaving, calmly ask him 'is there anything I can do to help you pack?' As soon as you behave in this way, he bizarrely feels like the rejected party and his mind starts working overtime. Let him miss you! There are ways that you can salvage things and I'll write more on that very soon.
THE INNER GODDESS ON A FIRST DATE!
The IG sets out on a first date with the attitude that she is simply meeting with another person. A new person! But just a person! There will either be a spark, or there won't. But if there is not, then she does not fret, or feel disappointed, because paths cross for a reason. She takes the time to enjoy this new individuals company and looks at what she can learn from the experience. Even the worst first date ever, is a learning curve, and the IG turns it into a great opportunity to have a trial run for the next great date that could be just around the corner!
The IG feels free to dress in a way that reflects her true self, and does not completely change her self image for ONE night! She has a few secret weapons for a first date that she can pull out of the bag (her signature scent, killer heels, or a great fitting jacket with jeans, a smile, simple classic but sexy outfit) but she knows that her number one weapon is her personality.
Changing yourself for a guy to be attracted you is a recipe for disaster because there is only so long that you can keep up the pretence before your poor IG suffocates! And besides, who wants a guy who is not best suited to them anyway?
THE INNER GODDESS AND FRIENDSHIP
The IG, when unleashed, will attract friends to her who are on a similar wavelength. The IG is a great inspiration to others, but she also know the importance of taking good care and rest for herself, because if she runs herself ragged, she is no good to anyone. She does not feel 'guilty' for putting her own needs ahead of others, because she knows that when she takes better care of herself, this in turn actually benefits those around her, as she is vibrant and energised.
Note: When you begin your journey of 'Unleashing your Inner Goddess', you may find that some of your friends distance themselves and accuse you of having 'changed'. It's a sad fact that sometimes, we may even lose friends, because they simply feel threatened by the IG strength. Do not let this dishearten you. There is an old saying that we are all each others mirrors. When we are strong, we hold a mirror up to another's face, and sometimes, they may not like what they see. We highlight all of the areas that they are avoiding, it probes them to look deep within themselves, and some people shy away from this because they are still comfortable to exist in a state of denial.
The IG does not want to just exist, she wants to live!
I hope that you enjoyed this little guide, I plan to keep on adding to it, so do visit back soon!
Angela Butler