19 May 2010 by Angela Butler
Your Inner Goddess, is yourself. Your soul. Your intuition. Your heart. The real, true essence of YOU. Simple! And the trick to unleashing her, is to simply learn how to quieten the hussle and bussle that confuses her, dig her out from underneath all of life's baggage that has accumulated and let her JUST BE! That's it! You do not need to invent your Goddess. The Goddess, is not an....
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3 Aug 2009 by Ali Campbell
Getting going – the easy way. I know there is a lot in the box and that’s because I really wanted to give you all you need to lose weight and enjoy being slimmer, happier and healthier. You really do have all you need but most of the questions I get asked are about where you should start. There is so much good stuff in the box that it can feel a little overwhelming, so, here’s the quick....
20 Mar 2009 by Michael Neill
As global economies plunges into uncertainty, it can be difficult to remain upbeat and inspired, and all too easy to start believing the media's doom and gloom. Tonight will help to re-inspire you and show you how to be more successful 'from the inside out'. Your success is not determined by the government or the state of the economy, but by your ability to change your thinking and adopt....
11 Mar 2009 by Peta Heskell
Dating - Your dating patterns I suspect that you, like many others, have rules and behaviours for dating. It might be useful for you to examine what specifically it is that you do that doesn’t seem to work? If you notice stuff that does work, great, keep it. Sometimes we build up expectations and then try to fit everyone into that tailor-made box The following exploration is your....
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26 Feb 2009 by Ali Campbell
Relationships are funny things… Or at least they should be if they’re going to last. I don’t just mean relationship in the sense of that special someone in your life or bed. We all have many and varied relationships in our daily lives - work colleagues, friends and family. Some are powerful and passionate and others fleeting and fickle but all are important. Or are they? I had a very....
24 Feb 2009 by Peta Heskell
Values We all have things that are important to us. To a very religious person it might be very important that they marry into their faith. To someone who has been ‘cheated on’ it might be very important to know that their next partner is into monogamy. I surveyed couples who have been together for over ten years and consider themselves happy. By far the most dominant reason they gave....
19 Feb 2009 by Peta Heskell
We all have different strategies for doing things. Being aware of someone’s strategies means that you are prepared for how they might react to things and you understand why they react the way they do. It also means that you can use these strategies to communicate more harmoniously. Meanwhile, here’s some ways people have of behaving that you might notice now that you’re aware of....
8 Feb 2009 by Ali Campbell
There’s an old saying ‘be careful what you wish for… you might get it’. On a recent trip to Abu Dhabi, I had an over night stop and a big meeting in London. No big deal you might think, but the absence of clothes added a new dimension to the challenge. Ok that’s a slight exaggeration - I did have clothes, but only the ones I stood in. The problem (although I didn’t realise it at....
7 Feb 2009 by Peta Heskell
Learn from their stories The stories people tell about their past relationships, how they are at work and how they treat their friends are clues to their personality. Listen for these clues and use them as a cue to get a clearer feel for that person by asking questions. How they behaved Kevin and Irene had an affair and fell in love. He left his wife because they’d grown apart and Irene was....
1 Feb 2009 by Peta Heskell
When we like someone and we are interested in them, after we spend time with them we need to process it. Sometimes we talk to our friends and analyse what’s going on. And sometimes we write in a diary. And sometimes we just let it go round and round in our head. And it can get muddled up. Some things can become more important than they need to be. Keeping a mental....
29 Jan 2009 by Peta Heskell
Sense-Able Listening The words people use and the way they phrase what they say are useful clues to how they make sense of the world. This information can come in very useful when communicating with people as you’ll find out in the next chapter. See feel hear Some people pick up on the visual aspects Others are highly tuned to what they hear And others get more of a feel for things....
29 Jan 2009 by Peta Heskell
The Face The face is a very telling organ and it talks incessantly. We are all familiar with obvious facial movements like raised eyebrows and a downturned mouth. But what about the not so obvious ones? Skin Colour Change Skin colour can change with emotion. When someone is ‘hot around the collar’ they’re experiencing a temperature rise and increased blood flow in the neck. These changes....
29 Jan 2009 by Peta Heskell
Communication is like a game of chess – you have to be aware of the potential moves and the effect they can have not just on the moment, but on the entire game. Each move you make will influence the move the other person makes and vice versa. If you make the first move, you are showing them the way and opening the channels. The opening moves of any communication are vital. Get them right and....
29 Jan 2009 by Peta Heskell
Story : Three years ago Tony was divorced, living in London and single. Now Tony and Alison run a business taking people on sailing trips around the Indian Ocean. Tony told me that before he sold his business, he used to spend a lot of time thinking about his dream life. He said it was like directing a fantasy movie. He’d write the scripts, choose the actors and the locations. He....
29 Jan 2009 by Peta Heskell
I’ve found that people who can’t love themselves find it difficult to love someone else unless there’s some emotional payback. You will either send out love as a message that says ‘please give me love cos I haven’t got enough for myself’ or you will drown someone with love in the hopes that they stay with you or you will put up a barrier that says ‘don’t love me –....